It’s not unusual for us to find ourselves faced with a tough situation. Life often presents such difficulties, and a Christian is even more likely to do so.
Years ago a young woman came to me seeking help to solve a problem. A friend had asked her to participate in a ceremony that would require her to compromise her convictions. She was looking for a way out of the situation without hurting the feelings of her friend – and without really having to confront the issue before her.
Looking at the ceremony and what the Bible teaches on such matters it was clear that the right thing to do was to say “no” to the friend. If she said “yes,” she would be violating a clear Bible principle.
Facing such challenges in life is not unusual. We learn early that some of our decisions will test the true depth of our commitment to Christ. Do I ignore what God has said in order to do what I want to do?
This is a common problem for people today. Every decision, every choice can place us in a situation that tests the strength of our promise to follow Jesus.
In 1952 a man was running for a seat in the United States Congress. In a press conference he was asked his opinion of alcoholic beverages. It was a loaded question, but he did not know the prevailing viewpoint of the city in which he spoke. If he opposed the sale of alcohol while most people approved of it, he would be in trouble. But, if they opposed it and he approved it, he was in trouble also. How did he answer? His answer is a classic illustration of someone who will say whatever he thinks others want him to say:
“If you mean, sir, the devil’s brew that causes an untold number of fatal automobile accidents each year which kill and maim thousands, that costs the American public billions of dollars through loss of work, that causes wives to leave their husbands, men to lose their jobs, their self-respect and dignity, then I, sir, oppose the sale and use of alcohol with all my being and every ounce of strength in me!”
He waited for a response to see if they agreed with his answer – but their response was not obvious. So, he continued:
“But – if you mean the bottled spirits that give men some temporary relief from the cares of the world, ease the aches and pains of the aged, put the bounce in an old gentleman’s step, provide work for many thousands of farmers, shippers, distillers, and storekeepers, that bring in millions in taxes and helps pay for defense, education for the little children, and many other things, then I, sir, will fight for it with every measure of my time and my ability!”
Now some may call that diplomacy, political expediency or whatever, but if you call it what it really is you have to use such words as cowardice, lying, a form of “situation ethics” at its worst, and a “gutless politician who just wants a job.”
Why is it so hard for Christians to stand up for our convictions? Why do we have such a strong urge to please everyone but the Lord? Why not follow Jesus’ example when He faced similar circumstances?
In Acts chapters 4 and 5 Jesus’ apostles found themselves in a similar dilemma. Those in power demanded that they cease to preach about Jesus. They had the authority to put them in prison if they refused. What did those Christian men say? Read their reply in Acts chapters 4:8-12 and 5:17-32, but they can be summarized in Acts 5:29:
“We ought to obey God rather than men.”
A person with no convictions has the respect of no one. If others disagree with you on a matter of Bible teaching they can at least respect you for not caving in when pressure comes. No one respects a coward, someone who fears to offend anyone, a person who is afraid to reveal and stand by his convictions. No one!
The young lady’s story? Yes, she went along with her friends. Her reasoning was, “God will be more understanding than my friends.” I wonder…..?
It saddened me then – and it must sadden the Lord, too.